Questions to ask
What Questions Should You Ask a Real Estate Agent Before Hiring?

Before you sign anything, ask yourself: what questions should I ask a real estate agent before hiring to make sure they have the right experience, local knowledge, and strategy for my situation? It’s a question worth sitting with, because most people never do.
Picture this: you’re sitting across from a polished, confident real estate agent who’s just slid a glossy presentation packet across the table. They’re smiling, they have a firm handshake, and everything about them says trustworthy professional. You nod along, they explain their process in broad strokes, and before you know it, you’re signing a six-month listing agreement or a buyer’s rep contract.
And you never asked them a single hard question.
This is how many people hire a real estate agent. They go with whoever a neighbor referred, whoever’s name was on the yard sign down the street, or whoever called back first. The source isn’t necessarily the problem. Skipping the actual vetting is. Choosing an agent who handles the wrong price range, works a different neighborhood, or relies on a marketing strategy that was already stale a few years ago can cost you, in lower sale prices, longer days on market, or higher carrying costs, and it’s completely avoidable.
Here’s what I’ve seen in over 17 years of working with buyers and sellers across Western Massachusetts and Connecticut: the clients who come in prepared, the ones who show up with real questions and expect real answers, consistently make better decisions. At Alex Anthony R.E., we don’t just tolerate that kind of interrogation. We welcome it. A good agent answers your toughest questions with data, specifics, and zero defensiveness, citing comps, list-to-sale ratios, and days on market rather than vague reassurances. That’s how you know you’ve found the right person.
What follows are five categories of questions to ask before you sign anything, the answers that signal genuine competence, and the responses that should send you straight back out the door.
Why this interview matters more than most people realize
Many buyers and sellers interview only one agent. They figure it would feel awkward to call someone else after already meeting with the first person, or they assume all agents are basically the same. Neither of those instincts serves you well when you’re about to hand someone the keys to what is likely the largest financial transaction of your life.
Talking to two or three agents before deciding isn’t rude. It’s the smartest thing you can do before signing anything. An agent who looks confident at an open house may have zero experience in your specific price range or the particular quirks of your neighborhood. Interviewing around is how you find out.
More importantly, the interview itself tells you something beyond the answers. You’re watching how an agent handles pressure, specificity, and skepticism. Do they answer directly, or do they pivot to reassurances and warmth? The agent who says “our average days on market is 24 compared to the state average of 27” is speaking a completely different language than the one who says “don’t worry, we’ll get it sold.” One answer is grounded in real performance data. The other is a sales pitch. Learning to tell them apart is the whole game.
What questions should I ask a real estate agent before hiring, local expertise and track record
“How many homes have you closed in my specific neighborhood this past year?” This one question separates generalists from genuine specialists. Any agent can claim to “know the area.” An agent who can name the streets, cite actual sale prices, and explain why one block commands a premium over another has earned that knowledge through real transactions. Ask for two or three recent client references in your community. A confident agent hands those over without hesitation.
“What’s your list-price-to-sale-price ratio, and how does it compare to the local average?” A ratio at or above 98% in a competitive market generally means the agent prices homes accurately and defends that price at the negotiating table. A ratio consistently below 97% is worth pushing on, though acceptable thresholds do vary by local market conditions, so ask for both their number and the local benchmark together. Did they overprice the listing to win the business and then chip away at it over weeks? Or are they just not negotiating effectively? Never evaluate one in isolation.
“What are the current trends for appraisal gaps and contingency terms in this market?” This is the question that separates agents who are actively working right now from those coasting on old knowledge. If they can’t speak fluently to what buyers are waiving and what sellers are countering with in 2026, their market knowledge is outdated. You want someone who knows what happened last month, not what was happening during the last market cycle.
Questions about the marketing plan and your home’s first two weeks
The first ten to fourteen days on the market are the most critical window for most listings. Buyer interest peaks early, and a weak launch is hard to recover from. Before you sign with any agent, ask them to walk you through exactly what happens during that window.
A real marketing plan sounds something like this: professional photography scheduled and completed before the listing goes live, a 3D tour for out-of-area buyers, MLS syndication, targeted social media campaigns, an email outreach to buyer’s agents in the area, and a clear showing strategy. If their answer is “we list it and see how the market responds,” that’s not a plan. That’s hope with a lockbox.
What’s included, and what costs extra
Also ask: “What’s included in your commission, and what costs me extra?” Professional photography, staging consultations, digital advertising, and 3D tours are not automatically included in every commission structure, they can be add-ons, and you won’t know unless you ask. Request a written breakdown. A strong agent is transparent about this upfront and can explain exactly what their fee covers. Any reluctance to put it in writing is itself a signal worth noting.
What happens if the listing stalls
Finally, ask what happens if the home isn’t generating showing activity after two weeks. Every agent sounds confident before the listing goes live. The test is what they do when it stalls. A solid agent has a specific protocol: when they recommend a price adjustment, what triggers a marketing pivot, and how frequently they’ll share showing feedback with you. Vagueness here should give you pause.
Questions about commission structure and what’s actually negotiable
Everything is negotiable: commission rate, services included, and payment structure. Some agents negotiate based on price point or market conditions. Others hold firm. What matters is how they handle the question. An agent who answers directly and explains their reasoning is showing you exactly how they’ll approach negotiations on your behalf. An agent who gets defensive or evasive when you ask about their own fee? That’s a preview of how they’ll handle a tense offer situation with a buyer’s agent on the other side of the table.
Questions about communication and who you’re actually working with
“How often will I hear from you, and through what channel?” sounds almost too simple to include, but mismatched communication expectations derail otherwise smooth transactions constantly. Some agents send a weekly written recap. Others text after every showing. Neither approach is wrong, but the rhythm needs to match what you actually need. Ask the agent to describe their standard communication style and be honest about what you expect in return.
Also ask: “Will you be my direct point of contact, or will I work with members of your team?” Many high-volume agents work with teams, which can be great for coordination or frustrating if you expected to work directly with the person who sold you on their approach. There’s no wrong answer here, but you deserve to know the structure. Find out who answers your calls on a Saturday night when an offer just came in, who attends your final walkthrough, and who sits across from you at the closing table.
Red flags to watch for, and what strong answers actually sound like
Vague answers to specific questions are the most consistent red flag in any agent interview. If you ask for recent comparable sales and the agent describes the neighborhood in general terms instead of pulling actual data, that’s a problem. If you ask about their average days on market and they pivot to client testimonials, push back. An agent who can’t produce specific numbers during a formal interview won’t suddenly become data-driven once you’re under contract.
Watch for agents who overprice your home to win the listing. This is one of the oldest moves in the business: quote a high number, get you excited, then gradually lower the price over weeks of market exposure. By the time you reach the real market value, your listing has accumulated days on market and buyer skepticism. The list-to-sale ratio question and the “what’s your plan if we stall” question are your best defenses against this pattern.
A strong answer makes you feel informed rather than impressed. The best agents answer your questions directly, volunteer specifics without being prompted, and occasionally tell you something that complicates their own pitch. That last part is the clearest signal of all. An agent willing to give you honest counsel, even when it costs them the business, is an agent who’s genuinely working for you.
When you find someone who welcomes every question on this list and backs every answer with real, verifiable data, you’ve found someone worth trusting with one of the biggest financial decisions of your life. That’s exactly the standard we hold ourselves to at Alex Anthony R.E.; you can read more about Our Approach and how we apply data to every listing.
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Use these questions as a filter, not just a checklist. Pay close attention to how freely an agent shares information, how directly they answer, and whether they ever say something that complicates their own case for why you should hire them. That kind of honesty is rare, and it’s worth more than any marketing packet or referral letter.
Knowing what questions to ask a real estate agent before hiring is the difference between a transaction that works for you and one that just works out. If you’re buying or selling in Western Massachusetts, Northern Connecticut, or Vermont and you’d like to see what a straightforward, data-backed agent conversation actually looks like, check out our Video Resources & Insights to watch real conversations and case studies. If you’d like to move forward, The Alex Anthony Difference is how we approach these interviews and negotiations, bring your hardest questions. We’ll bring the numbers.